I got an email that caught my attention today and I decided to make a post about it. The title was “Get me Laid“.

The person that sent it to me has been struggling to meet a woman online and offline. He went on to tell me how difficult it was for him because of his poor looks, his weight problem and he went on to mention all his faults. There’s something that is so important, so powerful when it comes to getting women in bed that is often overlooked. Ever wonder why some guys get all the gals? Even if they’re not the best looking dudes around they still manage to bed almost every single woman they set their eyes on. Why is that? What is it that they have that you don’t?

Well it’s actually quite simple. Confidence. That’s it. Confidence is what they have that some men don’t. Work on being more confident and women will flock to you. I don’t care what you look like, how you dress, how much money you have, what kind of car you drive, as long as you exude confidence the ladies will love you. “Will that get me laid”? You better believe it!

You can check out some confidence building programs, you can go talk with a psychologist and see where your low self esteem originates from or you can just make a conscious effort to love yourself and be proud of who you are.

There are some programs you can find online that can help. I’m not sure how many of you believe in the power of subliminal messages, but there are softwares you can install on your computer that generate subliminal messages to your brain while you’re simply surfing the net. One that doesn’t charge anything is called subliminal blaster. A simple google search will help you find it. Program it to generate messages to build up your self confidence. It may help you improve the way you see yourself and in turn help you with the ladies.

That’s basically the reply I sent him. I hope it helps some of you.

You’re beautiful – You’re Smart – You’re Sexy – You’re You – Now Go get her!

His reply to this was – “But this didn’t get me laid”.

Other than bending over and letting you have your way with me, this is pretty much the best I can do 🙂

Happy hunting!