Best Adult Hookup Sites

Best Hookup Sites Online

Let’s not waste any time with introductions and dive right into the best adult hookup sites to use in 2017. Hookup sites can either be an insanely frustrating experience or a very easy and quick way to meet real local singles for casual encounters. Choosing the right site is crucial in having a positive experience.

Factors that Determine Which Hookup Sites are the Best

What did we take into consideration when compiling this list of reliable hookup sites?

  • The price of monthly membership. Some hookup sites are ridiculously expensive and were left off this list.
  • Reputation.
  • Security. There’s nothing worse than having your information shared or leaked. We made sure the sites we chose are on secure servers.
  • The difficulty level in finding casual hookups.
  • Male to female ratio. We avoided sites with absurd ratios of men to women

Best Hookup Sites

This list isn’t in any particular order. Simply choose the one that suits your needs. Some sites offer a hookup guarantee. We’ll mention the ones that are currently offering this promotion and will keep their status updated.

1. Instant Hookups — True to its Name

Hookup Guarantee – ACTIVE

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InstantHookups is fairly new to the online hookup scene but has generated enough buzz in its short lifespan to merit a spot on this list. This is a hookup site that focuses on delivering quick and easy hookups to its members. This is reflected on its user interface and from our experience, it delivers what it promises.

Prior to its official launch, IntantHookups marketed heavily to women and has an impressive male to female ratio that surpasses all other sites in its field. How long will this last? Probably not very long. Men usually have a way of sniffing out these types of sites and taking over in a short period of time.

For now, it is easily one of the best hookup sites for newbies and experienced users alike. As a premium member myself, I’ll be sure to remove this from our list when and if the ratios drop to a point where finding encounters becomes difficult.

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2. SnapSext — Age Gap Hookups

Hookup Guarantee – ACTIVE

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We’re fans of SnapSext. We have been for some time. However, SnapSext is not for everyone. It’s a terrific choice for anyone who’s over 30, prefers younger women, and is fine with sharing lots of explicit photos with other members.

There is a longer period of “play” on SnapSext than most other hookup sites. If you’re someone who likes to tease, be teased, and take it slow, this is an excellent choice.

The ratio of women to men is fair at roughly 55-45 meaning there’s usually someone for everyone. If you’re too shy to send photos or to appear on video I would advise you try one of the other sites on this list.

If you’re too shy to send photos or to appear on video I would advise you try one of the other sites on this list.

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3. InstaBang — Quick & Easy Casual Hookups

Hookup Guarantee – ACTIVE

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Anyone who has used InstaBang will agree with me when I say this is probably the easiest site to get laid on. It yields results similar to the glory days of Craigslist’s casual encounters section before it turned to cr@p.

If you’re in the United States, Canada, the UK, or Australia, you owe it to yourself to try InstaBang at least once. We review sites on a regular basis and are able to consistently find women who are ready and willing to meet on day 1 in multiple cities. We’ve yet to strike out on InstaBang.

InstaBang’s dual-purpose video chat feature is a great way to take things to the next level. This hookup site yields results, period.

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4. AdultFriendFinder — Hookup Site for Swingers

Hookup Guarantee – NOT AVAILABLE

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AdultFriendFinder, or AFF for short, has been in operation since the mid-nineties. In this time, they’ve amassed an impressive member database of nearly 75 million users. However, the ratio is slightly lopsided and finding local hookups can be a challenge at times for some.

There is a community however that will truly benefit from this site and that’s the swinging community. If you’re interested in the lifestyle, this is your best choice. Whether you’re a couple looking for another couple, a couple looking for a third person to join you, or a single man interested in meeting swinging couples for threesomes, AFF is the perfect fit for you.

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5. MilfTastic — Milf Hookup Site

Hookup Guarantee – ACTIVE

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Who doesn’t enjoy the company of an experienced and eager milf? We’ve all gone through this phase at some point. Luckily, MilfTastic makes finding milf hookups a breeze. With an impressive cougar to cub ratio, MilfTastic is a solid choice for younger men interested in hooking up with older women.

MilfTastic relies on a solid marketing promotion of advertising to milfs and letting the men discover them on their own. This keeps things balanced and provides both men and women with results that keep them coming back month after month.

There are over 3 million members. Although this number alone might not seem impressive, the users are very active and engaged making it a solid choice for anyone seeking an older, more experienced woman.

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6. OutPersonals — Gay Hookup Site

Hookup Guarantee – NOT AVAILABLE

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OurPersonals caters to the gay, bisexual, and bi-curious community. Part of the FriendFinder network and in operation since 2003, OutPersonals makes it easy for men to meet other men seeking local casual encounters.

Their user base surpassed 1.5 million this year and making a connection is quick and easy.

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Tips for Using Adult Hookup Websites

You’ve probably noticed by now, reviews of adult hookup sites vary from excellent to terrible. The same sites reviewed by different parties yield opposite results. If you’re asking yourself why this is, the answer is simply because some people are clueless when it comes to using these types of sites while others have mastered the art of seducing women online. Let’s take a look at some ways you can improve your game and start hooking up rather than striking out.

Hookup Site Profile Tips

Your profile is your bread and butter. There’s no way around this. I know it seems like a lot of work especially when you’re looking for a quick hookup but the difference it can make is well worth your time. Luckily, you’ll only need to do this once.

  • Use a catchy, memorable username.
  • Upload multiple photos. Don’t settle for “mugshots”. Incorporate a diverse portfolio of photos in your profile including some with friends, activity pics, your pets, etc. Nudes are not recommended even on adult hookup sites. Leave something for other members to look forward to.
  • Hobbies, interests, likes, dislikes. Oftentimes, we tend to overlook this part of our profile. This is a big mistake. You see, legitimate hookup sites, like most dating sites, use algorithms to match their users. When a member is presented with “potential matches”, the algorithm uses information from your profile to find common interests. You want to appear on other members’ feeds as often as possible. More exposure means more NSA hookups and a better overall experience.
  • Be Unique. You definitely want to stand out. Being different is a good thing. It gets attention. It gets responses. If there’s something truly unique about you, don’t hesitate to mention it in your profile.
  • Incorporate fantasy into your profile. Dull profile with cliches like “I’m easy going” or “I’m adventurous” are a dime a dozen. Instead of these worthless lines, list multiple fantasies that you may have. This is a great way to attract members that may have similar fantasies.


Although it may be a little outdated, this video montage of 80s dating videos will give you a good chuckle and an excellent idea of what NOT to do or say when using online dating sites or hookup websites.

Engaging With Other Members

Once you’ve got your profile set up, it’s time to start engaging with other members. Let’s look at a few key points,

  • The most important factor when engaging with other members is establishing trust. Women will not take a chance on meeting someone they don’t trust. It’s good to be mysterious, but at the same time, you need to offer female members reassurance that you’re safe to meet with.
  • Don’t be TOO eager to ask a woman to meet up with you. “Hi, my name’s Jason, wanna Bang?”. This, unfortunately, won’t result in any kind of encounter, ever! Some women will be eager to meet other members right away, but most of them will want to get to know you a little before actually agreeing to hook up.
  • Be prepared to share links to your social media accounts. A lot of women will ask to see your Facebook, Instagram, or other social media pages. They do this in order to scout potential partners a little before hooking up. If you don’t, there’s a good chance she’ll move on to someone else.
  • When making first contact, take a minute to check a woman’s profile. Try to find common interests and approach her with something pertaining to that. It’s a great way to break the ice.
  • Once again, be unique when approaching a woman for the first time. If you can make get a smile with your first message, you’re almost guaranteed to get a response.
  • Don’t limit yourself to contacting only one member and waiting for her to reply. Women get dozens of messages from guys every day and replying to all of them is usually not an option. Keep contacting members until replies start to roll in. It’s a numbers game.

What to Watch out For

Enjoying your experience on any hookup site requires a little bit of caution. Here are some things you should watch out for to avoid becoming a victim of a hookup site scam.

    • Although hookup sites have become very good at detecting and removing fake profiles, some still manage to slip by the moderators. Detecting a fake profile isn’t as hard as you may think. Avoid profiles with only 1 picture. If you ask for more photos and she’s not willing to share any, chances are, it’s a fake profile. If she seems a little too eager to hook up with you even before the courting phase begins, chances are, it’s a fake member.
    • Any member that asks for money is a sure scam. If someone hits you up for money, block them immediately and report them to the mods. Whether it’s money to buy a prepaid card for her phone to talk to you or money to buy a bus ticket so she can come see you, it’s most definitely a bogus member who’s looking for something other than a hookup. Older men and women are targeted more. If you’re a senior, check out this video, it may help you protect your life savings. Scammers can be very imaginative.

  • Use caution when meeting someone for the first time. Always arrange a meeting in a public place. This ensures your safety and hers. There are some people who want to meet up with you with intentions that are very different from your own. People have been beaten up, robbed, and even killed. Safety should always be your main concern. This applies to both men and women. Unfortunately, men looking for gay hookups should be especially careful when meeting someone for the first time.
  • When upgrading your membership, read the terms of service. There are some sites that will charge you extra fees for services you may not be interested in. We recently signed up to a site that cost $29.99 for a monthly membership only to find a hidden fee of $69.99 on our card. We apparently agreed to this in order to access the adult video database of the site which we had no intentions of ever using. Make sure you know what you’re paying for when you upgrade and that there are no other costs associated with upgrading.
  • Always make sure the person you will be meeting up with is of age. Even though members must be 18 or older to join, it hasn’t stopped some minors from signing up. You WILL be held responsible even if she’s the one that lied in her profile. If you’re unsure of someone’s age, ask to see their Facebook profile. This can reveal whether or not she’s a minor or of age.  Always be 100% sure when dealing with younger women.

Online Hookup Site Statistics

  • Hookup sites have been around as long as the internet itself.
  • On average, women make up approximately 40% of the userbase.
  • 40% of hookup site users are aged 18-35 — 30%  are in the 36-45 age group, 20% for the 46-55 age group, and the remaining 10% are 56 and over.
  • You’re 200% more likely to land a date on a hookup site on a Friday or Saturday.
  • 60% of hookup site members are single. The rest are either looking for discreet affairs, other swinging couples to join them, or looking for a 3rd person, man or woman, to join them in the bedroom.
  • Pilots, doctors, entrepreneurs, teachers, firemen, and chefs are the professions women claimed to be most attracted to on hookup sites.


Common sense is usually enough to keep you safe from any of the dangers of using adult hookup sites. Remember, if something appears too good to be true, it usually is.

I hope you found this post on the best adult hookup sites helpful and informative. No matter which site you decide to sign up to, always listen to your intuition.

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