Being a good lover is not about mastering moves or learning new positions. It’s not about whether or not we perform oral sex on our partners or about how long we can last in the sack.

It’s about paying attention to our partners. This goes for men and for women.

Being receptive to our lovers means noticing how they react to your every action. By noticing your partner’s reaction to your every

action you’ll know what he or she likes and dislikes. Every person’s idea of good sex differs, something that one person likes may not be received well by another.

It’s common sense. We’re all different in every way so why shouldn’t this apply to sex? You may have noticed that one person enjoyed you very much in bed while another didn’t.

Pay attention to your partner. Try figuring out what turns them on and what turns them off. Talking with your lover is another way of finding out their likes and dislikes.

In the end, the only thing that will help you in becoming a better lover is simply paying attention to your partner. No books, creams, pills or gurus will ever help as much as simply PAYING ATTENTION TO YOUR PARTNER.

So the next time you’re in bed with your man or woman, watch their reaction to your every action. As time goes by, you’ll know exactly what gets them going.

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