8 Benefits of Nsa Relationships
Nsa relationships are great. For many reasons. Let’s take a look at a few of the many, many benefits you’ll get to enjoy by being in a casual relationship as opposed to a committed relationship.
Obviously, Multiple Partners
By far, the most important, and beneficial aspect of being in a no strings attached relationship is the ability to sleep with multiple partners. Every person you sleep with in your life is a new experience. We grow and learn by trying new things. Why would sex be any different? Of course, some people in committed relationships also enjoy multiple partners discreetly, but who wants to deal with the lies and hiding.
No More “I Have a Headache Tonight”
Any man in a full blown relationship knows what I’m talking about. She’s just not in the mood tonight. It’s very frustrating to be with someone, and at the same time, be rejected. In a casual relationship, when you and your partner get together, you have one common goal. You both want the same thing and when you get together, there’s no such thing as being rejected.
No One is Owed Anything
A real Nsa relationship is mutually beneficial. No one person gains more than the other one. Thus, no one is owed anything. Often, with couples, one person often feels like he or she owes the other person something. When you’re casual friends with someone, this doesn’t apply. If you find yourself in one of these situations and DO feel like you owe your partner something, it’s time to evaluate and assess your situation.
Special Dates Mean Nothing
We’ve all been there. Trying to keep up with anniversaries, Valentine’s day, birthdays, the list goes on and on. What I find really special with Nsa relationships, is that dates mean nothing. There’s no pressure to buy her or him a gift, no reason to call her on any given day. Other than to hook up for a steamy encounter, there’s really no reason to call her at all. Isn’t that great?
No More Apologizing
Men, do you find yourselves apologizing for reasons even you can’t explain? We’re always sorry about something. In a casual relationship, the fact of the matter is, you’ve got nothing to ever apologize for. The only reason I can see someone apologizing to a sex buddy would be if they stood them up, or if the man “finished” too quickly 😉 other than that, no more “I’m sorrys”.
Her Friends and Family Mean Nothing To You
Yup, you don’t even have to pretend you like them! Having to deal with friends and relatives of a partner is enough to send some people running for the hills at times. In this case, not only do you not have to meet them, but it’s a good idea to NOT meet them. They can sometimes put a strain on you special agreement.
Sex is More Uninhibited
When you have sex with someone that is strictly in your life for that purpose, you tend to drop all your inhibitions allowing you to experience things you normally wouldn’t dare try. We’re wired this way. This, of course, doesn’t apply to everyone, but most people tend to keep some of their strange or bizarre fantasies to themselves when sleeping with a committed partner. With a sex buddy, you’ll find it much easier to open up sexually.
Finally, You Don’t Have to Put Up With Anything
We’re all human. Thus, we’re all flawed. Having to put up with someone’s BS is part of life. Luckily, in the case of “friends with benefits”, when the deed is done, you can grab your keys and head for the exit. You don’t have to put up with anything. Doesn’t that sound just amazing?